In
the Qu'ran, the month of Ramadan is described as, 'that
in which the Qu'ran was revealed as a guidance for people'.
The ayah {verse} goes on to explain who should fast, and
who is allowed to not fast. Allah, Glorious and Exalted is He,
then explains that:
Ramadan
is the ninth month of the Muslim calendar when all Muslims - with
a few exceptions - have to fast during the hours of daylight.
The first day of the fast is authorised by the Amir who has authenticated
a sighting of the new moon. This is a very important moment when
people often gather outside with great excitement. Each person
hopes to be the first to see it. The lunar month can be 29 or
30 days long, so they look for the new moon on the 29th day of
Sha'ban, which is the month before Ramadan. If on the first evening
the Amir is not satisfied that the new moon has been seen, Ramadan
will begin on the following evening. {Regretful to say that
the excitement of this practice has been abandoned in modern times.
We should try to adopt this method once more insh'Allah.}
Once everyone knows that the month of Ramadan has started, they
begin preperations. Early in the morning, each family gets up
before dawn to eat a meal {called suhur}. It is dark and
sometimes it is very difficult to get up, so parents try to encourage
the children so that they don't miss their suhur or breakfast.
{This is normally a very exciting time for both kids and adults.
The children particularly like the idea of getting up in the night
to eat something, and to fast during the day.} After eating
on the first morning, they then resolve on their intention to
fast that month 'for the sake of Allah (swt)', and each day people
similarly renew their intention to fast that day. From this moment
their fast begins. They then perform their Fajr prayers.
During
the day they must not eat, drink, have sexual relations or smoke.
Even more important - they must try not to get angry or think
bad thoughts, because this would also cancel out any good things
they might recieve from Allah (swt) through fasting. Many people
find that because they are fasting they lose their tempers more
quickly. So one of the first things that the fast teaches is self-control
and patience.