People
have described the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wassalam) as
being of between tall and medium height, of a slim build with
broad shoulders. His skin was light and his hair black and
slightly curly reaching to his ear lobes. He also had a beard.
Even in old age he hardly had any grey hair. His eyes were
very dark with long lashes and arched eyebrows. Between his
shoulder-blades there was a birthmark which was the 'Seal
of Prophethood'. When he walked, he strode and the earth seemed
to roll away from under his feet. When standing or walking,
his body leaned forward slightly. He often smiled, although
underlying that was an expression of gravity. When he turned
to talk to somebody, he turned his whole body to face the
person and his manner was always courteous humble and gentle.
His most notable feature, was the radiance that shone from
his face and eyes.
When people first met him, they would be filled with awe.
But in a short time they found themselves completely charmed
by him and very soon after that they would become devoted
to him. The Ummah has a deep and unwavering love for their
Prophet. Even most of his enemies, in the end, pledged their
allegiance to him. He did not like people to flatter him,
and forbade them to prostrate themselves before him - or after
his death, at his tomb. When somebody called him 'Lord', he
replied quickly that only Allah (swt) was 'Lord'. It is Muslim
practice to regularly pray for the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu
alaihi wassalam), as well as the other prophets out of gratitude
for everything we we have received from him and through him.
He
was known for his great love, compassion and patience, and
for always speaking the truth - even Abu Sufyan who was one
of the Prophet's worst enemies until he became a Muslim, said
that the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wassalam) had never told
a lie. The Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wassalam) was always
ready to be supple and yielding in order to make peace as
long as it did not go against Islam and the Will of Allah
(swt). He always carried out the terms of any treaty he had
agreed, and always trusted the Almighty. In all dealings he
was just and fair. He was never the aggressor in any war.
He had a very tender heart. When someone once related to him
how a father had buried his young daughter while she was crying
out to him, the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wassalam) dissolved
into tears. He never took revenge on anybody who had hurt
him, and even allowed the woman who had tried to poison him,
to go without punishment. Truly, he was an example of compassion.
The
Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wassalam) had great humility and
helped with the housework, mended his own clothes and shoes,
milked the goat, cooked occasionally and looked after the
children. He was a loving father and husband and encouraged
the male members of his Ummah to also treat their wives and
children with tenderness and understanding. He told them that
the greatest charity they could do was to look after and care
for them.